I recently came across a story about Huguette Clark. Huguette has just celebrated her 104th birthday in New York City. She is the heiress of millions of dollars left to her by her father who made his fortune in Montana copper mines. She presently owns three homes: a $100 million home in Santa Barbara, a $24 million country home in Connecticut and $100 million apartment in New York City, overlooking Central Park. Having this much money and three beautiful homes, and living to the age of 104, one would think that Huguette Clark's life has been wonderful, happy and carefree. However, nothing could be further from the truth. Huguette has lived as a recluse for the most of her adult life. She has not visited any of her homes in over twenty-two years. She has staff in her homes who have worked for her for over fifty years and have yet to meet her! Her only friend (to whom Huguette once gave $10 million) now has Alzheimer's and can no longer visit her. She has no children, no family and no friends. She celebrated her 104th birthday alone in a hospital room in New York, where it is claimed she has lived for over twenty years. In comparision, while most of us do not have millions of dollars or beautiful homes across the country, we have family and friends to celebrate our birthdays with. Our homes may be far less elegant than Ms. Clark's, but we enjoy them. We have a great deal less money than she does, but we have so much more of what really counts: love of life, joy of friendships and closeness of family. Having everything in life that makes us happy, even if it is not millions of dollars . . . . it's a good thing!
Sometimes the world can be a downer! With instant images of tragedies and disasters – natural and man-made – assaulting us at rapid speed, it feels like we are surrounded by negativity. I strive to make my blog a positive and happy place to visit – a place to get away from the bad stuff that is happening. My goal from June 1, 2010 to May 31, 2011 was to find one positive thing each week day to write about for one year.
That was the birth of my blog – one year of “good things” as seen “Through Rose Coloured Glasses”. Sometimes I had to dig deep to find happiness on a gloomy day. Some days were not happy, but I was always able to find a positive to talk about. Sometimes, I had to fit writing my blog into the end of a very busy day or the early morning prior to a busy day. Other times I had such good days I had to pick and choose which one good thing I should write about. Somehow I managed to do it, and I think I proved that you can “fool” yourself into being happy just by pretending you are. The year flew by. I will continue to write in my blog, but not every day. I hope that together we can continue to watch the world through rose coloured glasses. - Rose
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